I guess im not alone in my situation,sadly. I also have a homless son.
He started having mental breakdowns in his ealy teens I tried so hard to get him help but with no insurance and his refusal it was dificult. His father in prison most of his life was no help. I dont understand he had a pretty good upbringing, I worked pretty good jobs & was able to provide well. I was extremely close to him went to EVERY school function, he was very well loved
. He started doing drugs in highschoo-weed & only God knows what else & things got worse he attempted suicide as number of times. Once even begging md to kill him cuse he could not. He started running away n I would be out half the night searching the streets for him.
It had always been just him, his brother & me. I was lucky to find a wonderful man his senior year and we all moved to his house but my son just hated it and hated him, even refusing to even speak to him. Eventually we got pregnant and still I would go out in the middle of the night everytime he went missing. My husband would get very upset & I thought it best that I better stop that. Right after his graduation he left n did not return, but I know had a newborn to care for. He was with friends then homeless dropped out ok f college after 1 semester no job, spen $7,000 in three months with nothing to show for it, no new clothes or shoes. Eventually he ended up with my mother. But now after a year of constantly battling with him she asked him to leave hes been on the street for 5days. Im worried sick about him but my husband doesnt want him here and we have a two yr old and a ten mth old to think about. Im thinking of offering to pay for a motel or rent a room for him but it would be behind my husbands back. I just dont know what to do. I love him so much